Not the first, and likely not the last of its kind, but the story of Clay and Harold - two committed gay partners from California together for 20 years, abused by the state while Harold passed away from complications due to a fall - is simply put, horrible.
The couple, 88 and 77, suffered without need after Harold took a fall and was hospitalized. Clay was not allowed to see him in the hospital as he was not 'family' - and then things got bad. The County went to court to take control of Harold's finances in order to pay for medical care and a nursing home, acting as if Clay was not involved. The house they shared was effectively confiscated from them and returned to the landlord, and many of the possessions sold at auction. Clay was forcibly moved to a different nursing home than Harold, and then Harold passed away.
Not only are there some serious property rights questions involved here, two clearly loving partners were kept apart by society during the last days they could have spent together. That is absolutely unconscionable.
http://www.nclrights.org/site/PageServer?pagename=issue_caseDocket_Greene_v_County_of_Sonoma_et_al
President Obama's recent call for improved medical rights for gay couples is a step in the right direction ( http://www.nytimes.com/2010/04/16/us/politics/16webhosp.html) but it still doesn't allow committed homosexual partners to be considered "family" - and that too is unconscionable.
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